We all want to be the best version of ourselves that we can be: happy, productive, motivated and living a life of meaning. But sometimes we find ourselves in need of guidance. There are many books that can help us in our quest to live as well as we can—as every bookshop's groaning shelves can attest. But which self help books are best?
We've asked dozens of experts to recommend the best books in their field. Some focus upon achievement, and the psychological factors that help us achieve: Angela Duckworth, the bestselling author of Grit, chose the best books on character development, while the renowned author of Mindset, Carol Dweck, chooses her best books on success. Michael Gervais, sports psychologist and coach to Olympians and CEOs alike, spoke to us about high performance psychology.
Others discuss overcoming periods of hardship in our life. For example, the podcaster and author Elizabeth Day chose the best books on coping with failure, while Sophie Ratcliffe selected five of the best books on grief and Robert Kelsey chose the best books on overcoming insecurities. Others spoke about strategies to help you get through periods of stress: Headspace founder Andy Puddicombe spoke about the books that inspired his life as a monk and meditation expert, while Tessa Watt recommends the best books on mindfulness.
One book, Man’s Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl is a book recommended time and time again amongst experts in this area. Frankl's account of his struggle to bring meaning to his life in a concentration camp in the Second World War is a deeply moving and inspiring book that offers all of us salutary lessons about the strength and value of having purpose in our lives.
Self help books are a great way to make big improvements in your life. It's never too late to change.
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Viral Justice: How We Grow the World We Want
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Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole
by Susan Cain -
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The Invisible Kingdom: Reimagining Chronic Illness
by Meghan O'Rourke -
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Elite Capture: How the Powerful Took Over Identity Politics (And Everything Else)
by Olúfẹ́mi O. Táíwò -
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Ritual: How Seemingly Senseless Acts Make Life Worth Living
by Dimitris Xygalatas
Five of the Best Self-Help Books of 2022, recommended by Avram Alpert
Five of the Best Self-Help Books of 2022, recommended by Avram Alpert
At the turn of the year, many of us take the opportunity to think about our lives—how they are going, and how we hope to live them in future. We asked Avram Alpert, author of The Good-Enough Life, to recommend five of the best self-help books of 2022 that might help our bids for self-improvement; his choices remind us that self-help is not only about life-hacks and diets, but about bringing the world more in line with our ideals.
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Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals
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Make Your Art No Matter What: Moving Beyond Creative Hurdles
by Beth Pickens -
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Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself
by Nedra Glover Tawwab -
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The Way of Integrity: Finding the Path to Your True Self
by Martha Beck -
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Seeking Wisdom: A Spiritual Path to Creative Connection
by Julia Cameron
The Best Self Help Books of 2021, recommended by Emma Gannon
The Best Self Help Books of 2021, recommended by Emma Gannon
Lockdowns have forced many of us to pause and consider the way we are living our lives, says the podcaster and bestselling author Emma Gannon. Here she highlights five of the best self help books published in 2021, with a special focus on creativity and setting better boundaries to safeguard our time and energy.
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Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity
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Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World
by Cal Newport -
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The Tao of Time
by Diana Hunt & Pam Hait -
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Drop the Ball: Achieving More by Doing Less
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Finding Meaning in an Imperfect World
by Iddo Landau
The best books on Time Management, recommended by Oliver Burkeman
The best books on Time Management, recommended by Oliver Burkeman
Feeling stressed and overwhelmed? You are not alone. Oliver Burkeman, author of Four Thousand Weeks, selects some of the best books on time management—including two classic how-to guides, plus several texts focused on helping you decide how you really want to spend your finite time on this planet.
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Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway
by Susan Jeffers -
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How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
by Dale Carnegie -
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Helping Your Child with Fears and Worries
by Cathy Creswell & Lucy Willetts -
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Mindfulness For Health: A Practical Guide To Relieving Pain, Reducing Stress And Restoring Wellbeing
by Danny Penman & Vidyamala Burch -
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Jog On: How Running Saved My Life
by Bella Mackie
The best books on Anxiety, recommended by Lucy Foulkes
The best books on Anxiety, recommended by Lucy Foulkes
Feeling anxiety is a natural part of being a human being, but for some people it can cause terrible mental and physical anguish and prevents them from leading happy and fulfilling lives. Lucy Foulkes, a psychologist at University College London, talks us through books that can help with anxiety.
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The Wisdom Pattern: Order, Disorder, Reorder
by Richard Rohr -
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Spiritual Practice for Crazy Times: Powerful Tools to Cultivate Calm, Clarity, and Courage
by Philip Goldberg -
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How to Be a Failure and Still Live Well: A Philosophy
by Beverley Clack -
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The Passion Economy: The New Rules for Thriving in the Twenty-First Century
by Adam Davidson -
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The New Corner Office: How the Most Successful People Work From Home
The Best Self Help Books of 2020, recommended by Oliver Burkeman
The Best Self Help Books of 2020, recommended by Oliver Burkeman
We asked Oliver Burkeman, the Guardian writer and author of The Antidote, to select the best self help books published in 2020. His recommended titles include spiritual guidance for the age of doomscrolling, a philosophy of failure, and practical advice for those working from home for the first time.
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The Organized Mind: Thinking Straight in the Age of Information Overload
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BrainChains: Your Thinking Brain Explained in Simple Terms
by Theo Compernolle -
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The Checklist Manifesto: How to Get Things Right
by Atul Gawande -
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The Inevitable: Understanding the 12 Technological Forces That Will Shape Our Future
by Kevin Kelly -
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The Antidote
by Oliver Burkeman
The best books on Productivity, recommended by David Allen
The best books on Productivity, recommended by David Allen
If you feel like you lose whole days to procrastination or indecision—or simply have too much to do!—you probably want advice on how improve your productivity. We spoke to David Allen, creator of the perennial bestseller Getting Things Done, about the best books on the subject: why we waste time, and what we can change to be more productive.
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Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind: Informal Talks on Zen Meditation and Practice
by Shunryu Suzuki -
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The Life of Milarepa
Translated by Lobsang P Lhalungpa -
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Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism
by Chogyam Trungpa -
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The Bodhicaryāvatāra
by Śāntideva -
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One Robe, One Bowl: The Zen Poetry of Ryōkan
by Ryōkan
Meditation Books, recommended by Andy Puddicombe
Meditation Books, recommended by Andy Puddicombe
Two decades ago Andy Puddicombe was ordained as a Buddhist monk. Now back in lay life, he tries to teach the benefits of meditation to the rest of us—most notably through the Headspace app, but also by writing books. Here he chooses some of the books that inspired him, from Japanese poetry to Tibetan philosophy. Not all are meditation books but they are his “old favorites.”
The best books on Coping With Failure, recommended by Elizabeth Day
Elizabeth Day, author of How to Fail: Everything I’ve Ever Learnt from Things Going Wrong, explains how the road to success truly is paved with failure—and why we must learn to deal with it better.
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The Marshmallow Test: Why Self-Control Is the Engine of Success
by Walter Mischel -
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A Curious Mind: The Secret To a Bigger Life
by Brian Grazer -
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Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
by Carol Dweck -
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Popular: The Power of Likability in a Status-Obsessed World
by Mitch Prinstein -
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Path to Purpose
by William Damon
The best books on Character Development, recommended by Angela Duckworth
The best books on Character Development, recommended by Angela Duckworth
Can we cultivate qualities like grit, tenacity and kindness? How about habits of the successful—hard work, perseverance and productivity? Angela Duckworth, bestselling author of Grit and founder of the Character Lab at the University of Pennsylvania, recommends five books, including a title that graces every CEO’s shelf.
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Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed
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Seculosity: How Career, Parenting, Technology, Food, Politics, and Romance Became Our New Religion and What to Do about It
by David Zahl -
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The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life
by David Brooks -
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In Search of Silence
by Poorna Bell -
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This Life: Secular Faith and Spiritual Freedom
by Martin Hägglund
The Best Self-Help Books of 2019, recommended by Oliver Burkeman
The Best Self-Help Books of 2019, recommended by Oliver Burkeman
The self-help genre is sometimes dismissed as simplistic or over-earnest. But, at their best, self-help books offer powerful insights into how to live. Oliver Burkeman, the Guardian columnist and author of The Antidote, recommends five of the best self-help books published in 2019.
The best books on High Performance Psychology, recommended by Michael Gervais
To reach your full potential you must put as much effort into building mental resilience as you do into work or training, advises high-performance psychologist Dr Michael Gervais. Here, he selects five titles to help you find the right mindset—whether you dream of sporting stardom, artistic achievement or business success.
The best books on Happiness, recommended by Jonathan Haidt
Most of us want to be happy, and yet it’s hard to achieve. Jonathan Haidt, psychologist and author of the classic The Happiness Hypothesis, talks us through five books, old and new, to better understand happiness.
The best books on How To Be Happy, recommended by Anthony Seldon
The contemporary historian and educationalist Antony Seldon discusses his selection of books on how to be happy.
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Mindfulness: An Eight-Week Plan for Finding Peace in a Frantic World
by Mark Williams. Danny Penman -
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Into the Heart of Mindfulness: Finding Our Path to Well-Being
by Ed Halliwell -
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A Mindfulness Guide for the Frazzled
by Ruby Wax -
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The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-Being
by Daniel Siegel -
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Mindfulness in Action: Making Friends with Yourself through Meditation and Everyday Awareness
by Chogyam Trungpa
The best books on Mindfulness, recommended by Tessa Watt
The best books on Mindfulness, recommended by Tessa Watt
In a world where many people feel frazzled by the pace of life, can mindfulness help? What’s the best way of practising it? Or is it just a fad? Philosopher Nigel Warburton talks to mindfulness expert, Tessa Watt, about the best books on mindfulness.
The best books on Mindset and Success, recommended by Carol Dweck
If you’ve stepped inside a school recently, you’ve probably heard teachers talking about the importance of a ‘growth mindset.’ Here psychologist Carol Dweck, who pioneered research into this key concept, explains what it’s all about and recommends books—other than her own—that shed light on it.
The best books on Overcoming Insecurities, recommended by Robert Kelsey
Most self-help books promise to take you from 0 to 100, but many people reading them are starting at minus 100. The author of What’s Stopping You? picks books that helped him come to grips with his own insecurities.
The best books on How to Be Happier, recommended by Gretchen Rubin
The author who gave us The Happiness Project passes on tips for happier living, with a little help from Samuel Johnson, Benjamin Franklin and a nun with humour on her mind.
The best books on Minimalism, recommended by Kyle Chayka
In times of political or personal turmoil, there’s a tendency to seek solace in stripping back life to its bare essentials. Minimalist thought is threaded through Stoicism and Zen Buddhism; absence and space became major preoccupations of 1960s US art. Kyle Chayka, the art critic and author of The Longing for Less, recommends five books on the philosophy that underpins the present fad for minimalist self-help.
The best books on Happiness at Work, recommended by Jessica Pryce-Jones
The CEO of iOpener, a human asset management consultancy, explains how you can increase happiness and thus productivity in the workplace. She picks five essential reads for bosses and employees.
The Best Self-Help Novels, recommended by Beth Blum
Since the publication of Samuel Smiles’ Self-Help (1859) in Victorian Britain, self-help has become a billion dollar industry—and its influence is even felt in the contemporary novel, says Harvard literary scholar Beth Blum, author of The Self-Help Compulsion, a new history of the rise of self-help narratives in modern literature.