The Mirages of Marriage
by William Lederer and Don Jackson
People don’t just exchange information. They do things with words. They issue commands even when they think they’re just describing reality. For example, someone might say ‘How are you’ to you in a way that both made you feel dominated and made you feel like crap.
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