Parenting
Last updated: September 17, 2024
This is a collection of the best parenting books recommended by experts. Every parent does the best they can, but there are times when the challenges can feel overwhelming and exhausting. Our growing collection of parenting books recommended by experts is aimed at providing information and good advice for parents to help them to raise happy, confident and resilient children.
This section covers mindful parenting, motherhood, fatherhood, child development, play, education, vaccines, child psychology and more. We have recommended books for before birth, and the infant stage to teenage years.
Inventing Ourselves: The Secret Life of the Teenage Brain was recently featured as one of the best science books to take on holiday.
Our experts include professors and leading figures in their field, so whatever your parenting questions, you are bound to find the answers here.
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Family Values: The Ethics of Parent-Child Relationships
by Adam Swift & Harry Brighouse -
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Wish We Knew What to Say: Talking with Children About Race
by Pragya Agarwal -
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Raising Feminist Boys: How to Talk with Your Child about Gender, Consent, and Empathy
by Bobbi Wegner -
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How to Raise Kids Who Aren't Assholes: Science-Based Strategies for Better Parenting, from Tots to Teens
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How to Talk to Your Kids About Climate Change: Turning Angst into Action
by Harriet Shugarman
The best books on The Ethics of Parenting, recommended by Elizabeth Cripps
The best books on The Ethics of Parenting, recommended by Elizabeth Cripps
What does it mean to be a good parent and what influence do we have on children as they navigate the challenges of the 21st century? Philosopher Elizabeth Cripps, a senior lecturer at the University of Edinburgh, recommends books that shed light on some of the ethics of parenting, including one on how to raise kids who aren’t assholes.
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Unequal Childhoods: Class, Race and Family Life
by Annette Lareau -
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How Children Succeed. Grit, Curiosity and the Hidden Power of Character
by Paul Tough -
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Intelligence and How To Get It: Why Schools and Culture Count
by Richard E. Nisbett -
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Promises I Can Keep: Why Poor Women Put Motherhood before Marriage
by Kathryn Edin & Maria Kefalas -
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Expecting Better: Why the Conventional Pregnancy Wisdom is Wrong and What You Really Need to Know
by Emily Oster
Parenting: A Social Science Perspective, recommended by Nate G. Hilger
Parenting: A Social Science Perspective, recommended by Nate G. Hilger
We think of parenting as a level playing field because loving your kids and doing everything you can for them comes naturally and isn’t determined by socio-economic status. The problem is that it may not be enough, says economist Nate G. Hilger. Here, he argues for a more activist approach so that kids across society have an equal opportunity to do well in life.
Genevieve Von Lob on Mindful Parenting
Dr Genevieve Von Lob talks to Five Books about the pressures and strains on family life today, and how a mindful approach can help us all.
The best books on Understanding Infants, recommended by Tobias Hecht
The anthropologist explains how infants are socially aware and why behaviour thought inevitable in some cultures, such as tantrums, can be uncommon elsewhere
The best books on Life Before Birth – And Life After It, recommended by Vivette Glover
The professor of perinatal psychobiology at Imperial College, London tells us how our understanding of foetal development and the importance of mother-child bonding has changed in recent decades
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Pricing the Priceless Child: The Changing Social Value of Children
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Social Development
by H. Rudolph Schaffer -
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The Roads of Chinese Childhood
by Charles Stafford -
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The Child in the City
by Colin Ward -
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The Spirit Level: Why Greater Equality Makes Societies Stronger
by Richard Wilkinson and Kate Pickett
The best books on Children, recommended by Jo Boyden
The best books on Children, recommended by Jo Boyden
We all know how children should be brought up, and rarely question the cultural norms that underly that certainty. But what does that mean for the policies we try to impose on the developing world? Jo Boyden, professor of international development at Oxford University and director of its Young Lives study, picks books that question our assumptions about how to successfully raise a child.
The best books on Being a Mother, recommended by Amy Chua
The author of the self-satirising memoir on ambitious “tiger mothers” talks us through the books about motherhood that have made the most impact on her.
Best Books About Dads, recommended by Paul Howard
Depictions of fathers in children’s books have leapt forward in recent years, says illustrator Paul Howard. He talks us through his favourite visions of modern dads in books, from the ultimate macho man to fathers at their most vulnerable.
The best books on Child Psychology and Mental Health, recommended by Tanya Byron
Clinical psychologist, author and broadcaster discusses the stigmas attached to mental health problems, and asks whether, as a society, we are really doing what’s best for our children
Deborah Levy on Motherhood in Literature
Aristotle tells us that all politics starts in the family, and nowhere is that more obvious than in the infamously fraught relationship between mother and daughter. Here, the novelist, playwright and poet Deborah Levy chooses five books – or rather, four books and one film – that explore motherhood.